When you're anxious, your design critiques turn defensive. When you're burnt out, creativity disappears. Let’s dive into 4 mindfulness practices that fix this.
Elizabeth Alli, a longtime product designer and founder who's been in the trenches since 2007, puts it perfectly:
"Design isn't just something we do. There's so much psychology involved in it. It's an extension of who we are, how we see the world, how we think through and react to problems, and then how we show up to solve them."
Read that again.
Your design work is a direct reflection of your mental state.
When you're stressed, your user research becomes biased. When you're anxious, your design critiques turn defensive. When you're burnt out, your creative problem-solving disappears entirely.
Mindfulness for UX designers is basically paying attention on purpose to what's happening right now.
You're not trying to achieve some zen state where problems magically disappear. You're just becoming aware of your thoughts, your biases, and your reactions so they don't sabotage your work.
👉 The insight in this blog traces back to a thoughtful conversation with Elizabeth — here’s the full discussion:
The hidden connection between mindfulness and better UX work
Connection between mindfulness and better UX work
The industry moves fast. Requirements change overnight. Stakeholders contradict themselves. And you're expected to just... adapt. Stay positive. Keep shipping.
So, how does mindfulness make you a better designer?
1. You conduct better user research
Mindfulness teaches you to notice your judgments and assumptions before they contaminate your research.
"We talk a lot in this industry about empathy and developing that. Not judging your users, but trying to get feedback from them. You're talking to them, you're trying to not be biased. You're trying to coax out an honest story. You want to hold space for them, make them feel safe." — Elizabeth explains it perfectly.
2. You present your work with confidence
Nervousness during presentations is usually about the internal narrative running in your head.
Before mindfulness, common thoughts sound like: "Do they think this is stupid? I should have done more research. That other designer's work was way better. What if they ask something I don't know? I'm an imposter."
When you have mindfulness, those automatic reactions can become observed, not believed. The inner script can shift to something like: "I notice I'm nervous, that's okay. I've prepared and can explain my decisions. If a question stumps me, I'll acknowledge it and follow up."
3. You make better design decisions
When you're mindful, you develop the ability to separate important decisions from noise. Elizabeth said it: "I'm not required to believe everything that I think."
Just because a thought pops into your head doesn't make it true or important.
Mindfulness helps you:
Know when to iterate and when to ship
Focus on what actually matters for the user
Trust your design intuition without being ruled by it
Not because they're bad designers. But because they're so emotionally attached to their work that every critique feels like a personal attack.
When you practice mindfulness, you learn to create space between the feedback and your emotional reaction to it. You can hear “This doesn't solve the user's problem” without translating it to "You're a terrible designer."
That space is where growth happens.
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Are introverted UX designers more naturally mindful?
Are introverted UX designers more naturally mindful?
I posed this question to Elizabeth, and her answer surprised me.
The assumption is that introverts, who spend more time in their heads, are naturally more mindful. But that's not quite right.
"The term mindfulness can definitely make you think that it's all about being of the mind and thinking, but it isn't about thinking at all," she explained.
In fact, introverts can actually struggle more with mindfulness because they tend to:
Overthink everything
Get stuck in analysis paralysis
Be overly critical of themselves
Worry excessively about how others perceive them
Meanwhile, extroverts practice mindfulness through body awareness. They're naturally tuned into:
Reading the room
Sensing energy shifts
Picking up on body language
Connecting with others physically
So if you're an introverted UX designer who's all in your head, you might be missing more than half of what's being communicated in your design critiques and stakeholder meetings.
The point: both personality types need mindfulness, they just access it differently.
4 simple mindfulness practices for UX designers
1. Meditation
Meditation
Elizabeth's take on meditation shattered my assumptions.
"It's not really about emptying your mind out or being at peace and just having a blissed-out experience. A lot of it is just really struggling with your very distracted mind while you sit there."
That's it. That's the practice.
You sit down for 10 minutes. Your brain goes: "Did I respond to that email? I need to finish that prototype. Should I learn Framer? Wait, what about dinner? Oh god, I'm terrible at meditation."
The goal isn't to stop those thoughts. It's to notice them without getting swept away by them.
Start small:
Set a timer for 5 minutes
Sit somewhere quiet (even your car works)
Focus on your breath
When your mind wanders (it will), just notice it and come back to your breath
Repeat daily
After a few weeks, something interesting will happen. You will start recognizing thought patterns. "Oh, there's that anxiety about my portfolio again." "There's that comparison to other designers."
Once you can name it, you can choose not to believe it.
2. Positive affirmations
Positive affirmations
I know. This sounds cheesy as hell.
But Elizabeth shared something fascinating about positive affirmations:
"It just feels like you're lying to yourself, and you don't believe it. But after a while, when it does kind of work out once or twice, you start to build this body of proof."
She gave an example from her tennis journey. She went from being completely unathletic and sore after 5 minutes to playing for 90 minutes straight… over three years.
The secret?
She'd go to the court thinking, "Okay, if I can't even play for five minutes, that's fine. At least I'm here. Let's see if what my mind is telling me isn't true today."
For UX designers, try this:
Before a design presentation: "I've done the research. I can answer their questions."
During a job search: "I have valuable skills. The right company will recognize that."
When learning a new tool: "I've learned hard things before. I can figure this out."
The point isn't to convince yourself you're perfect. It's to stop believing the catastrophic stories your brain tells you.
3. Journaling
Journaling
Journaling isn’t about career documentation, it’s about mental calibration.
Elizabeth: "I'm a big fan of journaling because when I go back and read some of those things, I honestly can't believe some of those things that I did. Sometimes we just forget, or we downplay it."
Try this weekly ritual:
Every Friday, write down 3 small wins
Note what you learned, not just what you produced
Capture moments where you handled something better than before
Over time, you build undeniable proof that you're capable. Not perfect. Capable. That's the difference.
Your manager won't fight for your promotion if they don't remember what you've done. Your future employer won't hire you if you can't articulate your value. And you won't believe in yourself if you can't see your progress.
If you're burned out, anxious, or constantly comparing yourself to others, that's going to show up in your work, in your presentations, in your relationships with teammates, in your portfolio.
Mindfulness isn't about becoming some perfectly zen designer who never gets stressed. It's about building the self-awareness to notice when you're spiraling, the tools to pull yourself back, and the clarity to make decisions that actually matter.
You don't need to do everything perfectly. You just need to start paying attention on purpose. Your career and your mental health will thank you.
Now go design something that matters. Mindfully.
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