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How I stopped doomscrolling and got my life back
“I should stop.”
Have you ever said those words to yourself while your thumb kept flicking the screen anyway?
It’s not just you. I’ve done it in the morning before brushing my teeth, in bed at night when I should be sleeping, in line at the coffee shop when I could have just… stood there and breathed.
It starts innocently.
A quick scroll to “catch up” on the news or see what friends are up to. But somewhere between the first headline and the fifteenth hot take, the dopamine hooks sink in. You’re not looking for anything specific anymore. You’re just… scrolling. Consuming an endless drip-feed of outrage, memes, tragedies, and highlight reels.
Psychologists call this doomscrolling; the compulsion to keep scrolling through negative or emotionally charged content. It’s the mental equivalent of eating potato chips while saying you’re not hungry. And it’s not harmless but studies link it to higher anxiety, poor sleep, and reduced focus.
The numbers are sobering. According to DataReportal, the average person now spends 2 hours and 31 minutes a day on social media. That’s nearly 38 full days a year; over a month of your life lost to the feed. For many of us, that number’s even higher.
I didn’t need a study to tell me this was bad.
I could feel it.
The wake-up call
For me, the wake-up call wasn’t dramatic. There was no breaking point. It was a Tuesday morning, I think. I woke up at 6:45 with a plan to go for a walk before starting work. I picked up my phone to check the weather. An hour later, I was still in bed, scrolling through:
- A friend’s holiday photos
- A stranger’s rant about oat milk
- A thread arguing about UX terminology
- Three breaking news stories about things I couldn’t control
My coffee was cold. My walk didn’t happen. My day started late, groggy, and overstimulated.
The absurdity hit me: I wasn’t living my life. I was consuming the highlight reels of other people.
It wasn’t just the mornings. Evenings slipped away to the glow of my phone. I’d sit down “just to check Instagram” and suddenly it was midnight, my to-do list untouched, my mind buzzing.
That’s when I decided: enough.
The experiment
I didn’t want a full digital detox. I still need my phone for work, to keep in touch, to access tools. But I wanted to reclaim at least three hours a day from mindless scrolling.
Here’s what I tried:
- No phone in the bedroom. I bought a cheap alarm clock (jk, it’s the MUJI retro one — love that thang) and charged my phone in the living room overnight. Mornings without an instant scroll felt strange, but freeing.
- No social media before breakfast. If I wanted to check messages, I could. But no feeds until after I’d eaten and moved my body.
- App timers. Instagram and X each got a 20-minute daily limit. When the time was up, the apps locked.
- Friction over convenience. I signed out of my accounts after each use. That extra login step made me think twice.
Within a week, I noticed:
- I consumed media intentionally. Instead of grazing on whatever came up, I actively chose what to read or watch.
- My sleep improved. No more 3 a.m. “just one more scroll” spirals.
- I rediscovered boredom. And with boredom came ideas. I started sketching again.
- I had more mental space. Conversations felt richer because I wasn’t mentally half in another tab.
Most surprising of all?
Three hours a day adds up fast. That’s 21 hours a week; almost a part-time job's worth of time I could pour into things that fed me.
The anti-doomscrolling starter pack
If you’re a designer, writer, or creative who wants to swap doomscrolling for something nourishing, here’s what I keep on hand when my thumb itches to scroll.
Practical / Skill-building
- Audit your product’s accessibility with free online tools.
- Redesign a screen you hate from a random app or website.
- Run a quick 10-minute usability test with a friend or family member.
- Review one of your old projects and note 3 things you’d do differently today.
Creative (Design + Writing)
- Keep a “design observations” journal and sketch things you notice in public spaces.
- Take a “reference photo walk”; typography, signage, and patterns in your city.
- Write a letter to your future self about your current creative process.
- Scrapbook a theme from your week (colours, moods, ticket stubs).
- Create a zine with cutouts, doodles, and quick thoughts.
- Write a “how-to” guide for something you’re good at.
- Pick up the film cameras you bought and never used.
- Make a moodboard for your dream side project.
- Doodle the weirdest icon set you can imagine.
- Try drawing a wireframe in under 60 seconds.
- Write a micro-story or start a fanfic series.
- Design a poster for a fictional event.
- Redesign your to-do list on paper.
- Draw a mini comic strip.
- Design a new emoji.
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Media to consume instead
- Start reading fiction.
- Listen to a design podcast
- Watch a talk from Figma Config or IxDA.
- Read a UX case study from a company you admire.
- Read a short story from an author you’ve never read.
- Read a non-design article from a field you rarely touch.
- Watch an architecture or interior design YouTube channel.
- Watch a design documentary (Helvetica, Objectified, Rams).
- Browse Behance for a niche category you’ve never explored.
- Read one chapter from a design or psychology book you’ve been putting off.
Other things that bring you joy
- Try a new coffee brewing method.
- Rearrange a corner of your home to make it cozier.
- Cook a dish from a cuisine you’ve never tried making.
- Open that bottle of wine you’ve been saving and taste it slowly.
- Bake something simple but comforting (banana bread, brownies, focaccia).
The real starter pack
Look.
Doomscrolling isn’t evil. It’s human. It’s curiosity, fear, and boredom tangled together.
But it can steal hours from the only life we get, and those hours add up to years.
Reclaiming three hours a day didn’t just give me time back. It gave me presence. I stopped starting and ending my days inside someone else’s story. I came back to my own.
And that’s the real starter pack: Not the list above, not the app timers, but the decision to look up from the feed and rejoin your own life.
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